Once in the DMF Family... YOU'RE FAMILY

DMF Beneficiaries continue to be part of the DMF Family long after the battle.

Whether it’s assisting the foundation or providing emotional support as the courageous earn their right to rest, the DMF Foundation is by your side.

We pay tribute to those who have fought valiantly and have earned their right to rest. See their stories here

Brenden Kidikas

DMF Angel
Brenden was diagnosed with Glioblastoma, a terminal brain cancer, in December of 2018 at the age of 14. After a courageous 14 month battle with this cancer, he passed away in February 2020 during his sophomore year of high school.
Brenden Lettered in Soccer as a freshman for his High School Boys Soccer Team.
Brenden also played both the clarinet and trumpet while in high school band and was part of the Waterloo Marching Machine that went to State Competition in 2018. He had a great love for music of many genres.
Brenden was on the Honor Roll in Academics his entire life. He thought he might be interested in Electrical Engineering.
A genuinely kind young man with a knack for humor, love of video gaming, and a competitive streak while playing cards, Brenden is greatly missed by family and friends.

Allan Foulkes

DMF Angel
Allan was diagnosed with a brain tumor in August of 2019 at the age of 26. After surgery, further scans and testing, he was determined to have Melanoma that had started in the brain. After undergoing 10 days of full brain radiation, he was treated with an intense immunotherapy regimen as his body could tolerate. In November of 2020, after evidence that the immunotherapy was no longer working, they started an experimental treatment which caused severe side effects and reactions. Then in March of 2021, he was referred to Hospice where he lived every day to the fullest while the cancer spread down his spine causing complete paralysis from the neck down. On June 2, 2021, he ‘walked’ the stairs to Heaven.
Allan lived every day of his life fearless, funny, caring, kind and loved with his whole heart. He was one of those people that befriended everyone, from all walks of life and social groups. His laugh: contagious, His smile: heartwarming. He could tell the funny jokes with the straightest of faces making the jokes even that much funnier. Allan loved life and everyone that was fortunate enough to cross his path. With the help of DMF and their generous donors, we were able to celebrate his 28th and final birthday with a surprise party. Family and his closest friends shared a day of love, laughter and memories that will live on and be cherished for the rest of our days. We are so eternally thankful for the support and will continue to keep his memory alive by paying forward every year the priceless generosity that was bestowed to our family.

Heather Loy Dibert

DMF Angel
Heather, our OH Beneficiary 2019, has gone to rest, but her legacy lives on, and her bright shining star Kady, was our auction hosting, ticket pulling, little dynamo. Mike honored his family, fulfilled his vow, and showed his daughter what love looks like. We all just got to watch and we are blessed for it.
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Frank Wiltbank

DMF Angel
Frank was our 2019 NJ beneficiary and has been fighting for a long time now. As we always say, no one loses their fight to cancer, they EARNED the right to rest. Our prayers and thoughts go to his wife Gloria Frye Wiltbank and his son Wyatt during this time. We will honor Frank's memory by continuing the fight to find a cure for this terrible disease and helping families during their battle. Rest in Peace Frank.

Macavan Baird

DMF Angel
Macavan Baird was the beneficiary of the 2nd Annual Legs for Lungs 5k held in North Carolina (2018). He passed away after a year long battle with stage 4 lung cancer. He is survived by his beautiful wife, Shannon, and 3 sons (Paxton - age 12, Harley - age 10, and Phoenix - age 9 months). Godspeed sir and the “fight will continue” for you!
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Matthew Williamson

DMF Angel
It’s with a heavy heart to inform you all that NC beneficiary (5K Legs for Lungs 2017), Matthew Williamson, has earned his right to rest. After a long fought battle with cancer, he is now in peace and with a new body! We send our deepest and most heartfelt condolences to his family and friends who have stood by his side through a tough journey. Matthew, you will forever be a DMF family member!

Trevor White

DMF Angel
DMF family and friends.. Today we said goodbye to one of our 2023 Beneficiaries, Trevor White. He took with him all of our love, heartfelt support, and prayers. I want you all to hold him in your thoughts and prayers, along with his family that was by his side. Sonya Inman White, the guiding light and angel that cared for her husband, deserves a metal of honor for her devotion to his care. Trevor is at peace now ... and his impact on us all will be with us forever.
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Max May

DMF Angel
He is a DMF Angel and earned his right to rest right after receiving his high school diploma. Max's symptoms began the last week of July 2020, just a few weeks after his 16th birthday. He had a constant extreme headache for about 9 days. His one day in the middle that he did not have a headache, he ran cross country in the morning, played basketball in the afternoon and played a baseball game in the evening. After the week of working with the pediatrician with migraine meds, and waiting for the insurance approval for an MRI, the doctor sent him to the emergency room to hopefully get an MRI and some relief for him. After some IV migraine meds in the ER, the MRI results came back about 11:00pm showing a mass in his brain about the size of a tennis ball. He had his first surgery, August 4, 2020. The diagnosis was a high grade glioma (glioblastoma). He had his one and only seizure in June of 2021. An MRI in June showed new tumor growth, so he was scheduled for another surgery in July. They attempted a less invasive surgery on July 12th, but the tumor had grown more than expected, so he had to have another surgery on July 13th. He also began using an Optune device in September. This is a device worn on the scalp and attached to a battery pack that emits eletro waves to break up cancer cell division. The device is worn on average 18 hours a day. In 2022, The MRI in July showed tumor change, so the immunotherapy was discontinued at that time. He kept using the Optune until August when he did 10 days more of proton therapy. In July, he began to have difficulty with his left hand and left leg. In October, he began a new chemotherapy medicine, Selinexor. He also began OT. Since his first surgery, he has had an MRI every 4-8 weeks. He did blood work every 2-6 weeks. He was determined to continue to do the things he wanted to do - the best his body would allow him to.

Keira Tapia

DMF Angel
It is with great sadness that we share the passing of Keira Tapia ( NC Beneficiary 2022). Keira had a long battle with cancer, that she fought bravely. She became an angel surrounded by her loving family. We pray for her parents, brother and sisters that they can make sense of this tragic loss. Godspeed sweet Keira, you earned your angel wings. We will continue the fight for you…
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Rhonda Grudowski

DMF Angel
In Loving Memory of Rhonda Grudowski — Our Beloved Ohio Beneficiary Rhonda Grudowski, from Ohio, was deeply loved by her family, friends, and the entire community, including many of our generous DMF sponsors and supporters. Together with her husband Ken, she lived a simple, fulfilling life filled with kindness and warmth. Rhonda’s brave battle began 12 weeks before her passing, shortly after her initial visit to the emergency room. After experiencing severe abdominal pain, doctors drained 2.5 liters of fluid and suspected cancer. Unable to work due to her condition, she cared for her recovering husband while facing nearly three months without income. On April 27, 2025, Rhonda received the heartbreaking diagnosis of Ascites Adenocarcinoma with signet ring cells, a rare and aggressive form of cancer affecting her colon and gastrointestinal system. Given the rapid progression, she was given only days to weeks to live. Rhonda passed away on May 2, 2025, leaving a profound loss felt by her loved ones and the Ohio DMF community. The DMF Foundation is honored to provide $2,643 to assist her family with final expenses and celebration of life arrangements. We thank all our supporters whose generosity makes it possible to stand beside families in their most difficult times. Our deepest condolences to Ken and all who loved Rhonda. May her memory be a blessing and an inspiration to us all.

Sherylann Middleton

DMF Angel
In October 2024, Sheryl became a NJ beneficiary and the funds helped cover her COBRA expenses while she awaited Disability approval in January 2025. This support allowed her to focus on her health without the fear of losing her insurance. Sheryl worked as a secretary for the Toms River School District, which did not participate in state disability benefits. As a recently divorced mother, she relied on every paycheck and could not afford third-party coverage. Even while battling cancer, she continued working through chemotherapy and radiation until she no longer could. After exhausting her paid time off, Sheryl had no income for months until the Foundation stepped in with critical financial support. Her sister, Denise, said being a beneficiary felt like an act of God. Sheryl passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family on March 22, 2025. She was only 55 years old, leaving behind her two daughters, Sydney and Rebecca and her fiancé, Robert Carella. She is also survived by her sister, Denise Casazza, and many loving relatives and friends. Sheryl was cherished deeply, and we will forever hold her memory in our hearts.